Glossary |
| Abstinence | Refers to when a person is refraining from having intercourse. In some cases they may be refraining from any sexual activities. |
| AC/DC | Refers to a bisexual person, in other words, someone that is attracted to both sexes. |
| AFK | Stands for Away from keyboard |
| Alternative Lifestyle | Refers
to lifestyles that people live that are not accepted by "the norm".
People may join alternative lifestyle groups to feel accepted in their
own beliefs or to be different the people living the norm. Alternative
lifestyles are for people of minority sexual preference including
bisexuals, lesbians, gays, swingers, BDSM lifestyles, etc. |
| Anal Sex | Refers
to when something or a part of someone is inserted into another
person's anus. Typically it is a penis or a dildo that is inserted into
the rectum, but it can also be a finger, tongue, or toy. |
| Anilingus | Refers to the act of oral (mouth) stimulation too a man or womans anus. This form of stimulation is a type of foreplay. |
| Articles | A
collection of articles written by experienced members of the site.
These articles are informative, and of pertinent subject matter. Anyone
may submit an article, but only those that are approved by the
webmasters are posted. |
| Asexual | Refers to a person who has no sexual feelings; an absense of sexual feelings. |
| ASL | Stands for age, sex, location
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| B&D, B/D | Stands for Bondage and Dicipline |
| BBIAB | Stands for Be back in a bit |
| BBL | Stands for Be back later |
| BBW | Stands
for Big Beautiful Woman. This term is used to describe a woman that has
a full body that is larger than the average woman's body. Usually woman
who say they are BBW are proud of their figure. |
| BDSM | Stands for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & submission, Sadism & Masochism. |
| Bestiality | Refers to the act of having sex with animals. |
| BF, B/F | Stands for Boyfriend |
| Bi-curious | Refers to a person who is curious about being involved with the same sex in a romantic or sexual way. |
| BillnPattie | Refers to us, Bill & Pattie, the site owners and webmasters. |
| Bisexual | Refers
to a man or a woman who is attracted to both sexes. They can be
physically and emotionally turned on by either a female or a male, and
may chose to become sexually or emotionally involved with either one. |
| Bondage | Refers
to an act in which one person binds another with restraints which
usually take the form of leather straps, ropes, tape, or chains. One
who prefers to be bound is normally submissive. One who prefers to bind
others is normally dominant. |
| BRB | Stands for Be right back |
| BTDT | Stands for Been there, done that
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| BTW | Stands for By the way |
| Butch | Refers to a lesbian who prefers to keep her dress, style, expression, or identity in a masculine way. |
| Chatroom | A
virtual room that members may enter and talk with other members in the
room. Chat is real-time, and messages can be viewed by anyone in the
chatroom. |
| Closed Swinging | Refers
to sexual relations between a swinging couple who exchange partners and
go to a seperate room to have sex in privacy. Also called "closed
door". |
| Closet or Closeted | Refers
to a persons state concerning their alternative sexual preference. When
a person is closeted, their sexual identity is secret from those around
them. |
| Come Out | Refers
to a person who acknowledges their sexual preference to people around
them most often family and friends. Some organizations have "coming
out" days or parades where gay, lesbian, bisexual, etc. people can be
themselves and show their pride. |
| Coprophilia | An absorbing and arousing interest in feces |
| CPL | Stands for Couples |
| Crossdresser | Refers
to a person who dresses up in clothes of the opposite sex. Most often
this is done for sexual, emotional pleasure, or both. Most often it is
a male dressing up as a female; however, a female that dresses up like
a male is also accepted. |
| CU | Stands for See you |
| Cuckold | A
man with an unfaithful wife. There are connotations of helplessness and
humiliation attributed to the word: implications that the husband is
helpless to stop her infidelity, and too cowardly to leave the wife. |
| Cunnilingus | Refers
to the act of oral (mouth) stimulation too a womans genitals, either
her clitoris or vagina. This form of stimulation is a type of foreplay. |
| D&S, D/S | Stands for domination and submission
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| Dildo | Refers
to a device that looks like a penis, usually made of rubber, plastic,
or skin-like material. It is used for sexual stimulation of the vagina
or anus. Dildos come in all different shape, sizes, and colors. |
| DINK | Stands
for Double Income No Kids. Usually it refers to 2 professionals who are
married, or in a long term committed relationship that either can't or
have decided not to have kids.
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| Discipline | Refers to the act in which a dominant person punishes a submissive partner when they fail to perform an action as the |
| Dominant or Dom | Refers
to a person that likes to be in control in sexual situations. A dom
usually has a submissive slave partner in which they can be assertive
with. "Masters" are referred to as Dominant. |
| Double Penetration or DP | Refers to when a person is being entered through the vagina and the anus or entered twice into either hole at the same time. |
| Erogenous zone | Refers
to areas of the body which are very sensitive to sexual stimulation
especially during foreplay. The most common erogenous zones include
genitals, breasts, and butt areas. Other areas include neck, ear lobes,
underarms, stomach, inner thighs and feet. |
| Exhibitionism | Refers to the practice of displaying one's self to others in public for pleasure. |
| Fellatio | Refers to the act of oral (mouth) stimulation too a man's penis. This form of stimulation is a type of foreplay. |
| Femme | Refers to a lesbian who prefers to keep her dress, style, expression, or identity in a feminine way. |
| Fetish | Refers
to the fixation (or obsession) on an a perticular act, object, or a
part of a persons which is not normally one of the main sexual organs
(vagina, penis, anus). A person receives sexual gratification from
using this object for sexual pleasure. Some fetishes include feet,
underwear, pantyhose, BDSM, etc. |
| FFM | Female
Female Male threesome where the male and female focus on a third
female. An example would me a man and another woman would please the
man's wife. |
| Flagellation | Refers to sexual feelings or stimulation that a person receives after enduring pain like getting whipped or spanked. |
| FMF | A
Female Male Female threesome in which two females focus on pleasuring a
male. This is sometimes referred to as the "typical male fantasy" |
| Foreplay | Refers
to sexual or erotic activites that preceeds intercourse. Many times
foreplay excites a person and prepares them for actual intercourse.
People can also be involved in foreplay just for reasons of the sexual
stimulation and pleasure purposes. |
| Forum | A collection of topics and replies posted by regular members. Any member can post a topic, or reply to an existing topic. |
| FWB | Friends With Benefits |
| G2G | Stands for Gotta go |
| Gang Bang | Refers
to a group of people who are having sex usually with one specific
person one after another. One person may lie in a single spot as a row
of people take turns having sex with this specific person. |
| Gay | Refers
to when a person, most often a male is sexually or emotionally
attracted to ONLY their same sex (in this case, a male attracted to
another male). |
| GBM | Stands for Gay black male |
| GF, G/F | Stands for Girlfriend |
| GJ | Stands for Good Job |
| GL | Stands for Good Luck |
| GM | Stands for Good morning |
| Golden Showers | Refers
to the act of urinating on another person for sexual stimuation or
sexual pleasures. This act is a type of Water Sport. Also known as
"piss play". |
| GR8 | Stands for Great |
| Group Sex | Refers
to sex or sexual acts when there are more then 3 people involved.
Sometimes it can be considered a social event between friends or at a
party. Also refered to as an Orgy. |
| Growth Swinging | Refers to social-sexual environment that promotes emotional, personal and social growth.
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| GSOH | Good Sense Of Humor |
| HB | Stands for Hurry back |
| Hedonist | Refers
to a person who lives for pleasure. Hedonistic people believe that they
should enjoy all the pleasures of life including erotic sexual
pleasures like swinging. |
| Heterosexual | Refers to a person who is physically (sexually) and romantically attracted to a person of the opposite sex. |
| Homosexual | Refers to a person who is physically (sexually) and romantically attracted to a person of the same sex. |
| HWP | Stands for Height Weight Proportional. |
| HWP | Height/Weight Proportional |
| Illicit sex | Refers to when a person is involved in sexual acts that are outside the bounds and bonds of a legal marriage. |
| IMHO | Stands for In my humble opinion |
| Instant Messages | A
private message window involving two members on the site. Both members
must be online, and only the two members in the instant message can
view the messages. |
| Intercourse | Traditionally,
refers to the action of inserting a man's penis into a woman's vagina
most often to reproduction reasons. However, when it's man on man
intercourse, it when the penis is inserted into the anus, also refered
to as anal intercourse. |
| IRL | Stands for In real life |
| ISO | Stands for In Search Of. Most often used in personal ads. |
| ISO | In Search Of |
| KIT | Stands for Keep in touch |
| L8R | Stands for Later |
| Lesbian | Refers to when a female is sexually or emotionally involved or attracted to ONLY their same sex, which is another woman. |
| LMAO | Stands for Laughing My Ass Off |
| LOL | Stands for Laughing Out Loud |
| LTNS | Stands for Long time no see |
| LTR | Stands for Long term relationship |
| Mail | Refers
to mail messages sent on the site. Every member has the unlimited
ability to write mail messages, and every member has the ability to
read mail messages. You must login to the site to read your mail
messages. |
| Manager | A
member of the site who also has managerial duties on the site which
include, among other things, reviewing profiles. Managers are the most
knowledgeable members of the site, and will help you in any way
possible. |
| Masochism | Refers to the act of receiving pleasure through inflicting pain and humiliation on others. |
| Matinee | Refers to having a sexual session in the afternoon. |
| May-December Relationship | Refers
to a relationship where one of the two people involved is considerably
older than the other one. For example, romances about older women and
younger men, much older men and younger women, or even same sex
relationships. Even though the age differences may not be great, the
age difference is an important factor. |
| MBC | Stands for Married Black Couple |
| MBiC | Stands for Married Bisexual Couple |
| Menage A' Trois | Refers
to three people involved in sexual acts or having sex. Very similiar to
a threesome, except in a Menage A' Trois, participants may be involved
together emotionally or have an on going intimate relationship. |
| MFM | A
Male Female Male Threesome in which two males focus on pleasuring a
female. This is sometimes referred to a typical bi-curious male's
fantasy. |
| MMF | A Male Male Female Threesome. This is the traditional idea of a bisexual threesome where a man and a woman please another man. |
| Moderator | A
member of the site chosen by the webmasters who is given the ability to
moderate the chatrooms. Moderators have certain abilities which allow
them to keep chatroom under control. Moderators also have the ability
to help members of the site. Feel free to message a moderator for help. |
| Moresomes | Refers to 4 or more people in having sex or being involved together in sexual acts. |
| MWC | Stands for Married White Couple |
| MWC | Married White Couple |
| MYOB | Stands for Mind your own business |
| NE1 | Stands for Anyone |
| Newbie | Refers
to a person who has just joined our site. A member is a newbie for
about 1-2 weeks. It is usually appreciated when more stable members
help newbies out with getting comfortable with the ways of the site. |
| NP | Stands for No Problem |
| NSA | No Strings Attached |
| NSA | No Strings Attached |
| Online smiley face/Offline smiley face | You
will be able to see if a member is online by looking in "online
members", or in any of the member results pages, as well as the members
actual profile. The online picture will have a blinking smiley face
icon. If the member is offline they WILL NOT appear in the "online
members" page. The offline icon will be a smiley face that will appear
to be snoring with "Zzzz's" coming out of its head. |
| Oral Sex | Refers
to when a person's mouth has contact with another persons genitals
(penis, vagina, anus, or scrotum). This is an oral stimulation that
often occurs during foreplay. |
| Orgy | Refers
to when many people are having sex or engaging in sexual acts most
often in the same room. Sometimes it can be considered a social event
between friends or at a party. Also refered to as having Group Sex. |
| P/P | Stands for Photo and Phone Number. This is used most often in personal ads. |
| Party/get-together/night out | Refers
to a planned event coordinated by a member or members of the site.
Arranged Parties/get-togethers/night outs will be set up within the
site every few months. Locations and Times are dependant on hosts and
host helpers.
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| Personal Matches | These
are specific matches that are brought up for each individual member
based on their answers for certain required questions in the profile
editor. There are three sections including new members/changed profiles
today, new members/changed profiles since you were last online, and new
members/changed profiles members since a specific date. |
| PITA | Stands for Pain in the ass |
| PNP | (Party N Play) Individual or group sex while using drugs or alcohol |
| Polyamory | Refers
to (poly=many; amor=love) sexual, emotional and or spiritual love for
more than one person. The ability to love and be in love with more than
one person/partner. |
| polyandry | The condition or practice of having more than one husband at one time |
| Polygamy | Refers to (poly=many; gamy=marriage) a marriage in which one spouse is married to more than one mate at a time. Group marriage. |
| PPL | Stands for People |
| PRO | Stands for professional. Can also mean that the person is experienced. |
| Profile | Your individual profile which you establish in the Profile Editor. There are 10 sections to your profile. |
| Recreational Swinger | Refers
to a person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion
with no desire for long term friendship or emotional attachment.
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| Remove Account | Refers to when a person elects to remove their account from our system. This will delete their profile and their membership. |
| ROFL | Stands for Rolling on the floor laughing |
| S&M, S/M | Stands for Sado Massochism |
| Safe | Refers
to when a woman or a man can no longer conceive or impregnate. Can also
refer to a person who brings protection against pregnancy or STDs. |
| Safe Word | Refers
to a word or a signal that was decided upon before hand. Once said
during sexual activity, it means the partner wants all actions and
activites stopped or to go no further. Most often used in BDSM
activities. |
| SBF | Stands for Single Black Female |
| SBiF | Stands for Single Bisexual Female |
| SBM | Stands for Single Black Male
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| SGL | Stands for Single |
| Slave | Refers
to a person who submissive to another person. A person can live a slave
lifesyle just in fantasy or it can be an entire way of living. Some
slaves will perform for a master sexually or non sexually such as doing
household chores. |
| Snail | Refers
to a member of the BisexualPlayground.com's Management Team. Snail is a
wonderful member who volunteers a lot of her time in helping the
success of the site. She is in charge of reviewing profiles and
pictures, general aid of people on the site, and is BillnPattie's
right-hand gal. Snail, is a great fun loving person who everyone should
get to know. If you see the Snail, feel free to send her a message. |
| Sodomy | Refers
to when something or a part of someone is inserted into another
person's anus. Typically it is a penis or a dildo that is inserted into
the rectum. In some states, especially where this type of sex is
forced, is is considered illegal. |
| Soft Swinging | Refers to swinging which involves keeping sexual intercourse between spouses only. The exchange of partners for oral sex only.
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| SRS | Stands for Same Room Sex ; Soft swinging. |
| STD | Stands for Sexually Transmitted Disease |
| STR, STR8 | Stands for Straight |
| Swapping | Refers to a form of swinging in which two or more primary partnered couples exchange partners for recreational sex. |
| SWF | Stands for Single White Female |
| Swinging/Swingers | Refers
to consensual extramarital sex which involves married couples to
exchange partners with a couple or couples but single men and women are
sometimes involved. |
| Switch | Refers
to a person who can play opposing roles sexually, physical play, or S
& M. For example, a switch is someone who can be a top or a bottom
or the dominating or submissive person. |
| Switch-Hitter | Refers to a bisexual person, in other words, someone that is attracted to both sexes. |
| SWM | Stands for Single White Male |
| Threesome | Refers
to three people having sex or being involved in sexual acts together.
Most often it involves two people of one sex and one person of another.
However, it can consist of all females or all males. |
| Transgendered or TG | Refers
to a person who believes themself to be a person of the opposite sex,
trapped in the wrong kind of body. A person who describes themself as
TG earnestly wishes to be or at least to pass for a member of the
opposite sex. Guys who wear dresses to ridicule women are not included
in this group. |
| Transsexual or TS | Refers
to a person who is modifying their body to match their transgendered
mind. For men, the first step in this process is to take female
hormones to develop breasts and to atrophy their male organs. These
girls sometimes describe themselves as pre-op TS, because the second
step is to undergo an operation known as Sexual Reassignment Surgery
(SRS) to reconfigure the remaining male organs into a vagina, clitoris,
labia, etc. Some TS girls stop at the pre-operation stage, while others
continue all the way. |
| Transvestite or TV | Refers
to one who wears the clothes of another (in this case, clothes of the
opposite sex.) In theory, this includes women who dress like men as
well as men who dress as women, but the latter are by far the most
common. The label TV doesn't distinguish between hairy guys with beards
wearing dresses to look ridiculous and people who are absolutely
indistinguishable from naturally born women. |
| Tribadism | Refers to the erotic art of two women rubbing their vaginas together. |
| TTYL | Stands for Talk to you later |
| TY | Stands for Thank you |
| UB2 | You Be Too |
| Vanilla Sex | Refers to sex or sexual acts that are NOT kinky, or alternative. |
| VEG | Stands for Very evil grin |
| Versatile | Refers to a bisexual person, in other words, someone that is attracted to both sexes. |
| Voyeurism | Refers to the practice of watching others for pleasure without them knowing it. |
| Warned | Refers
to when a member breaks one of the rules in the Terms of Service and
BillnPattie send that member an email warning them that they have
broken a rule and cannot break another one or their account will be
removed. |
| WB | Stands for Welcome back (usually in chat) or Write back (usually in e-mails). |
| WTG | Stands for Way to go! |
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